Being Objectified As a Goal

We submissive women strive to be beauty and attractive -- it's in our heart and our fiber. Sometimes it takes so much work and concentration! How can we find the energy and inner strength to achieve our dreams of our physical selves?

This means we need to be objectified. As submissive women we can see ourselves as, in part, "objects" as part of our being.

What does this mean? It recognizes that we are "thinking bodies." We can be helpful and supportive, nurturing and loving ... and also be an attractive addition -- indeed, an integral part -- to a man's home and world. We are intelligent ideally as we are helpful, useful, full of purpose with grace and elegance. To achieve this, we are not stupid. Our smarts are derived best in the context of what we offer in the context of being submissive women.

As "objectified," we can concentrate on and value ourselves and our attractiveness in terms of our usefulness and the beauty we can create and offer. Think of worship, adoration, attentiveness, service, the love of our men in terms of being objectified. I am reaching down into my heart to understand what that means ... find the honesty in recognizing our inner truth ... as living our lives as objectified. As treasured objects belonging to our men, the extension of this is that we derive and embellish wisdom and development and happiness as virtually as property to our "owners." This offers a powerful sense of belonging and self worth.

I've been thinking about the submissive female role of being objects and being objectified, in terms of the value of remaining still. Think of the fundamental pleasure of remaining motionless for a time, existing for the pleasure of the man of the house? We are a priceless thing of beauty -- not only to be gazed at and admired, but also an object providing pure erotic pleasure, nurturing and love. We can be beautiful at work in the home too.

This is a fantasy role, of course ... yet it is one we can bring to life each day -- with honesty and in recognizing our inner truth -- as beautiful, loving, helpful, valuable ... and happy ... females.